Gerry, there are a few things I would do differently if I had a do-over, but overall I'm happy with my choices given the way I use the boat. To answer your questions, I used Shields Poly X sanitation hose - I bought a 12 foot length and used about 6 feet to make all connections, and like Hayden, used the Sealand PVC to hose connectors. They are inexpensive, easy to use and reliable. I cut the sanitary hose to the size needed, then left it on the deck in the hot Florida sun for an hour. Connections wiggled on without lubrication. I removed the original IP tank (11 gal?) from under the V-berth (not sure where yours is) and threw it out. It stunk really bad -- it was the original plastic tank. That space I now use for storage. I removed 20+ feet of smelly sanitation hose in the process. I read somewhere that the manual pump on my Raritan head could push waste at least 3 feet high, so I tried to keep the upper tank fitting below that height, and pumping to the tank has not been an issue -- and it's only a few feet. I did not use a check valve, but at the end of every day, I pump clean water to clear the line to the tank. You don't want waste sitting in the flex sanitary hose. For the tank, I purchased a Moeller linear polyethylene waste tank (Jamestown Distributors has them) on Amazon -- I think it was the 6-gallon size but I'm not near the boat to verify -- on the theory that in my case, less is more. I didn't want gallons of waste sitting in the tank for long periods, so the smaller size forces me to dump more frequently. A larger tank with more height and volume would certainly fit, but it likely will need to be a custom made unit that tapers to the bottom. On the drain side I installed a PVC line to a PVC tee -- one side leading to the deck pumpout, the other to the through-hull discharge. In the latter, I installed an inline valve to shut off the the drain line. That was both to direct waste to the deck pumpout when vacuum is applied, and to prevent waste from sitting in the lower flex hose just before the through-hull. To drain the line, I shut off the upper valve first before closing the through-hull. And yes, you can see the level of waste in the tank through the opaque poly tank. I can still use the locker for some clothes, but space is very limited. One other idea you might consider. I converted to mostly fresh water flush by tee'ing off the water tank with a line to the seawater intake line using inline pvc valves and a check valve to prevent backflow to the water tank. Fresh water also helps keeps smell at a minimum. The seawater line is still there and I can switch back to seawater flush if needed by throwing two inline valves. I have some pictures if I can figure how to upload.
Chris McDonnell
Even Keel
IP26-053